60 Seconds of Terror
Completely submerged, I pounded the ice with my fist while panicked boys above me screamed for help. Weighted down by boots, a winter coat, and fear, I could only think of Dana. I was certain that if I didn’t find a hole in the ice I would never see my dog again.
My Scouting Days Were Limited
To say that I was a reluctant boy scout is an understatement. The thought of camping and eating dehydrated packaged foods was repulsive. I went along with the idea to show my aloof step-father that I was not a sissy. Our scout leader’s thinly veiled plan was to have us boys slip flyers under tenement doors in order to earn enough cash to leave the city for greener pastures. I’ll explain the scam later. This charade meant giving up Saturdays, for how long, I don’t recall; all for two insufferable nights with miserable scout leaders intent on showing us how to be real men.
I didn’t mind summer camping so much. Well that’s a lie, I hated the mosquitoes and I despised my pumped up, so called, leaders. But in the summer, I didn’t freeze my ass off and I could at least go swimming. When the leaders announced a winter trip, I asked my mom if I could sit it out. My mother was always concerned about my desire to spend more time in my room than out and about. She insisted that I go and demanded that I have fun. It doesn’t really work that way, but back then, kids did what they were told.
We arrived at the campground in Alpine, New Jersey. It couldn’t have been more than an hour from the city; rural, desolate, and way too far from Brooklyn for my liking. I’m going to say, all in, there were around 15 of us. We got there on an old school bus; the same yellow jalopies still on the road today. The bus was damp and cold and you felt every bump to the point where it hurt your teeth. I’m not a delicate flower mind you, I just didn’t see the point in such nonsense.
It started snowing the night before we left for Alpine and I recall arriving at camp hoping that the cabins were buried so deep we’d have to turn back — no such luck. Upon arrival, we were told to put our things on top of our bunks and return to the dining hall (I use the term loosely), for further instructions. All the boys had boatloads of energy and were anxious to be outdoors; our leaders seemed just as anxious to coax us out. They told us we could play, but that we should stay close to the cabins and return before lunch. They were to remain in the dining hall so that they could map out the rest of the weekend.
My scout peers and I ran into the great beyond, not far from our home base. The snow was over eight inches deep and blanked the camp. Most of us were testing the snow to see whether or not could make snowballs with it. In fact, it was perfect for packing — we were all ready for war . . . boys will be boys. I started running toward the center of what I thought was a wide open field and I felt the ground beneath me crack open; in fact it was a lake, not a field. I was pulled into the frozen water, weighted down by my winter boots and a heavy wool coat. I must have started screaming, but this part is all a blur. I later learned that as soon as I took the plunge, a couple of the boys ran to alert our leaders.
Completely submerged, I frantically searched for an opening in the ice. It was dark under water due to the fallen snow. It felt as if I was moving in slow motion as I listened to frantic screams and tried to swim to the surface; my clothing was soaked through, weighing me down. After what I’m certain was a very long time, I heard splashing nearby. I moved toward the sound and found an opening in the ice. Each time I tried to hold on, the ice broke off. The other boy who had fallen in was thrashing two or three away. I heard panicked voices pleading for the two of us to stay calm, “Help is on the way.”
By the time our scout leaders arrived, we’d broken through quite a large patch of ice. I’d gone under numerous times. The men quickly laid across the ice, creating a human chain, and pulled the two of us out of the lake. We were carried back to the leader’s cabin and placed in front of the fire. My clothing was quickly peeled off of me and I was wrapped in a large blanket. I’m sure my lips had turned blue and I was shivering so badly I feared I would never stop. Looking back, I’m certain our leaders were more fearful of a lawsuit than hypothermia. I recall deafening silence as they attempted to warm us up. I was given a cup of hot chocolate, but I couldn’t stop shaking long enough to get it down.
A decision was made to cancel the weekend and take us all home to our parents. I don’t recall hearing the reaction of the other scouts. One of our leaders grabbed my backpack and took responsibility for getting me home. I didn’t know him very well, I didn’t like him, and I didn’t trust him. In the car, he questioned me about how I fell in the ice. I shared with him what I was certain everyone had told him, that I ran onto what I thought was an open field and fell into the lake. He just nodded and assured me that I’d be home soon.
When we got to my house my mother was anxiously waiting at the door. I didn’t realize they had called ahead and she was crying and obviously angry. She hugged me tighter than usual. I’m was pretty sure that it was all a show; drama was my mother’s specialty and this was a situation that called for plenty of it. The scout leader asked if he could come in. My brothers and sisters all stared at me as if I had some sort of rare disease. I was still bundled in blankets because my coat was soaked. My mother asked the scout leader to have a seat.
I recall her repeating, “How could you let this happen,” several times.
She made it clear that I would never be allowed to go away with the boy scouts again and threatened a lawsuit. This news made me very happy; almost making my submersion into the frozen lake, worth it. My scout leader told her about the snow covered lake and the human chain, but it fell on deaf ears. They spoke for a few more minutes, he apologized again and left. I wasn’t used to see him humble. Once he was gone, my mother reverted back to her old ways and sent me to bed; not before making it clear that falling into the frozen lake was all my fault and that I was lucky to be alive.
I never returned to the boy scouts after that incident and there was no lawsuit ever filed. It wasn’t because my mother didn’t think she had a case, it had more to do with the effort she’d have to make it happen. I have stayed away from fields covered in snow and never once, regretted leaving the scouts.
The flyers work our leaders had us do, was a scheme to line their pockets. Arrests made local news and there were indictments. I recall feeling vindicated. To this day when I see flyers being slipped under doors, I have a visceral resentment for those boy scout “leaders,” and their intention to teach us how to lead.
São Miguel is less than two weeks away and if all goes well, I’ll be back in the States for a visit, by mid-May.
Question of the Week:
Have you ever had your life flash before your eyes? What did you see?
4 thoughts on “Trapped Under Ice”
Wow, we’ve known each other since we were 7 years old, and I have learned more about you through your blog than I have in over 53 yrs of friendship. Anyway, in answer to your question, yes, I have seen my life flash before my eyes, but it happened so quickly, I couldn’t possibly tell you what I saw. Besides that, it was 40 years ago. My parents had already thrown me out of the house and I was living with my friend Neyra and her parents and siblings. I had gone out after work to spend some time with an ex-boyfriend named Frankie. When I got back to Neyra’s house, my current beau, Mimi, was waiting for me outside. He asked me where I’d been and I told him I was out with a friend for dinner. Needless to say, he didn’t believe me. He was the most jealous man I have ever known. Anyway, he threw me into his car and took off, yelling at me in Spanish. We were suddenly on the highway headed for the Verrazano Bridge. I started to panic, was he going to throw me off the bridge? Before we got to the bridge toll, he grabbed me by the hair and pushed my head down on the seat next to him. He then started to strangle me with his right hand while still driving. That was when my life flashed before my eyes and I knew I was going to die. He had to let go of my throat when we reached the toll booths. I took this chance, opened the passenger door and leaped out of the car, running across two or three lanes of cars to another toll booth. I told the toll collector that my boyfriend was in that car and he was trying to kill me. He immediately closed his booth and took me down some stairs to an office. They called Neyra’s family and told them what had happened. They arrived about 30 minutes later and took me back to their house. It was the most terrifying night of my life.
I, too, almost drowned when you pushed me and held me underwater in Seth Low’s pool one summer. If it weren’t for Daniela’s brother Fabio pushing you off my head, I probably wouldn’t be here now typing this story. My poor mother was sitting there on a bench watching this unfold. You never did tell me why you did that. Maybe it’s your turn to answer a question of the week …WHY???
I think you imagined that pool story or perhaps you called me Chrissy 😊
I’m learning shit about you too!
Stay away from men, they can harm you!
EEEKKK. I am so glad you got out of that scary predicament. I need you around to torment me.
Haha. I vow to stay around and continue to torment you.