It’s Still Not Okay to Be Gay

Gay Pride Month Thoughts I’m sitting with friends having a light brunch and some bozo at the table says, “I’m not sure why Paul has to hide his sexuality, it’s so much easier to be out these days.” I sit on my hands and hold my tongue in a vice grip. People have this habit… Continue reading It’s Still Not Okay to Be Gay

Gay Life in New York City in the 80s & 90s

I asked and you told me: this blog request comes from a good friend. Patrick asked me to write about being gay in NYC in the 80s and 90s and so here goes. Some people crawl out of the closet, some burst out, others start with a toe; I did it out of desperation. I… Continue reading Gay Life in New York City in the 80s & 90s